On my daily scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed I came across a post that caught my eye. It read something to the extent that thanks to Facebook and social media that anyone can make themselves a world champion and trainer. This person mentioned that they missed the days of having to prove yourself with a gold buckle to show your worth. I'm of course paraphrasing but that was the jist that I received from it. I agree - to a point.
Today the people that you can interact with and "follow" thanks to social media is astounding! Getting to know these people through the net we get the opportunity to see into their lives. The people we have access to range from the next door neighbor to the world champion barrel racer, celebrities, and well beyond. There's a thing about social media though that many over look. Many who post their lives on social media only post (or mostly post at least) about the good in their lives. We don't see those that have fallen and gotten back up. We can't see those that are riding the high under false pretenses. It's a take what you see with a grain of salt kind of world on the net. You don't see those with all the talent of the world but choose to stay home for various reasons, are injured, etc. You need to be the judge of who is worthy of "following".
Here's what rubbed me a little off on that post. That the only true champions and ones worth paying attention to are those with the buckles to prove it. Let me be the first to tell you, if you think that only those that are worthy of learning from or listening to are those with a "gold" buckle adorning their belt, then you are sorely missing out. Having had the opportunity to ride and train with many who have not won the gold and a few that have, I have learned far more from those missing that bragging right than those that have it. A champion doesn't always wear the buckle to prove they are a champion.
A champion can be many things. I know many who have just as much talent as anyone around that instead of chasing those lines on the road are busy tending to a ranch, getting a college degree, taking care of their children, running the family business, etc. Their priorities weren't on the gold buckle and the bragging right that comes with it although they could give those going down the road a run for their money on any given day. If a "champion" is the only one worthy of learning from then a champion to me is someone who works hard, has a level of grit and determination, a master at their craft, humble, and always willing to lend a helping hand among other things.
If we judge someone by their accomplishments and not by their talent, we are missing out on a huge opportunity to learn and better ourselves. I've always said that you can always learn something from everyone; whether it's something to do or something not to do. You see the real champions don't always wear gold buckles. They could be your parents in the stand, your spouse, your grandparents, a family friend, someone that showed you the ropes and took you under their wing; each one helping, supporting and rooting you on as you work to reach your full potential. If you feel that only a champion with a gold buckle to prove it is worthy of learning from, your losing out on a huge education and opportunity.
I'm so thankful for the "champions" that have been involved in my life and journey. I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for them!
